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Tuesday, August 05, 2025

IWSG Unethical Practices - Rights



Our IWSG question for August 6th is: What is the most unethical practice in the publishing industry?

Boy, do I have some opinions on this one! I was first published in NY waaay back in the late ‘80’s when authors were working out of their homes totally isolated from each other. There were no chat groups, no industry magazines, no Internet! I’d never met another writer! Many agents (not all!), if you could get one, were found in an outdated hardcover compilation in the public library and were more interested in catering to the publisher than fighting for their own author’s interests. At that time, the majority of newbie authors felt as though they were working for the agent instead of the other way around, that if you didn’t tow the line, the agent would fire YOU! I know I did.

Then came my first national romance writer convention where I met walking, talking, writing folk just like me!! Did they ever set me straight! I had the chance to talk to my heroes in the industry, authors I’d read and adored (and they’d actually read MY books!), forging connections that still stand strong. I found a new agent to partner with and went home with the card of an editor who would buy dozens of my Dana Ransom/Rosalyn West historical romances. And for the first time, I felt like I was in control of my career.

And when I conferenced in New York, I got to meet my historical editor, who took me to their downtown office where I got to see my next cover being developed and met the cover model who was working on my next book. What a Cinderella moment. In my opinion, that’s what all we authors should experience.

Allowing ourselves as the creative force behind the industry to think we’re second-class citizens is a grievous wrong to our psyche and our bank accounts. Something that social media and assessable in-person gatherings are still working to overcome. The ability to self-publish was a huge milestone for many of us, giving writers an opportunity to bring their dreams to a fully realized life on their own. I like keeping a foot in both worlds.

As our industry continues to evolve and change, it’s up to us to inform ourselves so we can ride out those sometimes unwelcome surprises and take advantage of new and exciting prospects. And as always, Writer Beware. If it sounds too good to be true or too easy to believe . . . do your homework!

Until next month . . . Write On!



Purpose: To share and encourage. Writers can express doubts and concerns without fear of appearing foolish or weak. Those who have been through the fire can offer assistance and guidance. It’s a safe haven for insecure writers of all kinds!

Posting: The first Wednesday of every month is officially Insecure Writer’s Support Group day. Post your thoughts on your own blog. Talk about your doubts and the fears you have conquered. Discuss your struggles and triumphs. Offer a word of encouragement for others who are struggling. Visit others in the group and connect with your fellow writer - aim for a dozen new people each time. The awesome co-hosts for the August 6th posting of the IWSG are Ronel Janse van Vuuren, Natalie Aguirre, Sarah - The Faux Fountain Pen, and Olga Godim!

Let’s rock the neurotic writing world!

Twitter hashtag is #IWSG

  

To join the IWSG Blog Hop and view the List of Hop Participants!



Tuesday, July 01, 2025

IWSG: That BIG Book


Happy already summer! I confess, I’m not a big fan. Give me the mid-70s, a porch swing, and a beverage of choice—the perfect combination for the creation of that next writing project. Ahhhh! But since that sweaty ship has sailed, I might as well address our IWSG question for this month in my air-conditioned home office.

July 2nd question – Is there a genre you haven’t tried writing in yet that you really want to try? If so, do you plan on trying it?

After having 80 romance-genre books published during my almost 40-year career, there are few writing universes that I haven’t explored since my non-traditional Regency, SWEET TEMPEST debuted for Zebra Books in 1987. Suspense, contemporary, historical, paranormal (everything but sweet romance) from New York Big Five to self-pubbed, I’ve enjoyed writing them all for some of the best editors in the industry. Of course, my dream was to get that BIG book sale, the one that would launch me from genre to single title shelves . . . but my first agent convinced me to stay in mass market for the quick turnaround of contracts. After the romance boom began to calm, my favorite editor, who’d by then retired, told me her biggest regret was never taking my books up to that next level. I never got that BIG book published with a Single Title launch.

Of course, I’m not done . . . yet.

Looking forward to finding out what new worlds in writing you’re anxious to explore!



Purpose: To share and encourage. Writers can express doubts and concerns without fear of appearing foolish or weak. Those who have been through the fire can offer assistance and guidance. It’s a safe haven for insecure writers of all kinds!

Posting: The first Wednesday of every month is officially Insecure Writer’s Support Group day. Post your thoughts on your own blog. Talk about your doubts and the fears you have conquered. Discuss your struggles and triumphs. Offer a word of encouragement for others who are struggling. Visit others in the group and connect with your fellow writer - aim for a dozen new people each time. The awesome co-hosts for the July 2nd posting of the IWSG will be are Rebecca Douglass, Natalie Aguirre, Cathrina Constantine, and Louise Barbour!

Let’s rock the neurotic writing world!

Twitter hashtag is #IWSG

  

To join the IWSG Blog Hop and view the List of Hop Participants!



Wednesday, April 02, 2025

IWSG: CHEERS! What fantasy character would you like to tip a glass with?


(Sorry I’m late with today’s post! I have no excuse except spring fever.)

The April 2nd IWSG Question is What fantasy character would you like to fight, go on a quest with, or have a beer/glass of wine with?

Though it was my first love as a young reader, I haven’t slipped into the fantasy realm for a long time. Not since I discovered the paranormal. I always thought of fantasy as dreamy and paranormal as the gritty stuff of nightmares. I guess I prefer to walk the edge of the dark side. The mid-‘60s horror soap opera DARK SHADOWS sealed the deal for me . . . I was paranormal all the way! Sigh, Barnabas Collins, the original tragic hero/villain. I’d tip a glass with him anytime . . . as long as I was wearing a silver cross and the content of the glass wasn’t red. And then there was his werewolf cousin. Quinton. Le sigh . . . I’d tip a pint with him in the foggy burg of Collins Port.

Since there was no PNR when I grew up, I devoured whatever darkish fantasy I could find. A WRINKLE IN TIME sold me on the genre because they fed my active imagination. Then came the Vampire Academy books . . . Because I was young(ish) back then, I never actually wrote more than snippets in the genre to entertain my friends at school. But when I became a published author that desire to sink my teeth into the dark side of romance became too powerful to deny and I approached my editor with what would become one of the two first mass market paranormal books, MIDNIGHT KISS in the mid-‘90s. So, I guess I am a trailblazer.

I plan to start a list of What to Read in Fantasy after checking out your posts . . .




Purpose: To share and encourage. Writers can express doubts and concerns without fear of appearing foolish or weak. Those who have been through the fire can offer assistance and guidance. It’s a safe haven for insecure writers of all kinds!

Posting: The first Wednesday of every month is officially Insecure Writer’s Support Group day. Post your thoughts on your own blog. Talk about your doubts and the fears you have conquered. Discuss your struggles and triumphs. Offer a word of encouragement for others who are struggling. Visit others in the group and connect with your fellow writer - aim for a dozen new people each time. The awesome co-hosts for the April 2nd posting of the IWSG are Jennifer Lane, L Diane Wolfe, Jenni Enzor, and Natalie Aguirre!

Let’s rock the neurotic writing world!

Twitter hashtag is #IWSG

  

To join the IWSG Blog Hop and view the List of Hop Participants!



Tuesday, March 04, 2025

IWSG: If I Could Be Anything/Anyone . . .


Our March 5th IWSG question is: If for one day you could be anyone or any *thing* in the world, what would it be? Give me a minute or a lifetime to think about that . . .

When I was five, that would have been an easy answer – I wanted to be like everyone else! When I started elementary school as the youngest of three girls, my middle sister was three grades ahead. She and my eldest sister had gone to the local elementary in our neighborhood which was mostly middle class. Then, a new shiny school was built in the area’s wealthiest neighborhood. Being on the edge of the district, we had the choice: stay at the old building or go to the new school.

To my mom, education was everything – the doorway to any future we could dream of. So that meant a mile walk or bike ride in every kind of weather to sit in a shiny classroom where we were . . . different. While we were hardly poor, we stood out in our homemade/hand-me-down clothes. Our dad wasn’t a doctor or a lawyer. My mom didn’t stay at home watching soap operas. She worked part-time and took a bus. I shared a bedroom with my middle sister and fought tooth-and-nail to get a storebought outfit to wear to a middle school field trip so I wouldn’t feel . . . less. I dreamed about being MORE. And those imaginings poured out in fantasy stories I shared with my friends - where I was a queen or a famous writer or the savior of the planet. Those fictional worlds were my escape . . . and my future as a multi-published author of 80 titles. I never became ‘famous’ or wealthy, but I was something better than that – a steady provider for my family by doing something I love and there for them whenever I was needed.

So, what else would I be for a day if I could be other than who I am? In my books I’ve been a warrior, an explorer, the savior of the dang planet! I’m good.




Purpose: To share and encourage. Writers can express doubts and concerns without fear of appearing foolish or weak. Those who have been through the fire can offer assistance and guidance. It’s a safe haven for insecure writers of all kinds!

Posting: The first Wednesday of every month is officially Insecure Writer’s Support Group day. Post your thoughts on your own blog. Talk about your doubts and the fears you have conquered. Discuss your struggles and triumphs. Offer a word of encouragement for others who are struggling. Visit others in the group and connect with your fellow writer - aim for a dozen new people each time. The awesome co-hosts for the March 5th posting of the IWSG are Ronel Janse Van Vuuren, Pat Garcia, and Liza @ Middle Passages!

Let’s rock the neurotic writing world!

Twitter hashtag is #IWSG

  

To join the IWSG Blog Hop and view the List of Hop Participants!



Tuesday, February 04, 2025

IWSG: Back in Time

Our Insecure Writers Support Group question for February 5th is: Is there a story or book you’ve written you want to/wish you could go back and change?

This is a tough question because of the sheer volume of backlist I’ve amassed in the nearly thirty years since I first sold – 80 published books if you need a number, along with dozens of finished but not contracted or begun but never completed novels.

As a rule, I didn’t, and still don’t, do a lot of rewriting, mainly because my contracts were so close together I didn’t have infinite time to spend with any one book. I submitted an outline, wrote the first draft, did the necessary edits (which, with the exception of my very first Regency, were usually either minor or nothing I felt strongly enough about to object to), sent the finished book in, then moved on to the next project. While working on any one of those titles, there was nothing but that work filling my concentration (even when working on several books in various stages of publication at a time!).

I saw each book more as a film than as a novel, with characters and plots weaving through a very visual backdrop of emotions and motivations. If, when finished, I could sit back with a satisfied sigh, the hows and whys of how I got there were immaterial. Being blessed with a great critique group and fabulous editors who were awesome cheerleaders was HUGE.

At this point in my career, I’ve gotten back the rights to the majority of my early works, so when getting them reissued I’ll have the luxury of time and the ability to make changes if I feel they’re needed. And I’m looking forward to that challenge!



Purpose: To share and encourage. Writers can express doubts and concerns without fear of appearing foolish or weak. Those who have been through the fire can offer assistance and guidance. It’s a safe haven for insecure writers of all kinds!

Posting: The first Wednesday of every month is officially Insecure Writer’s Support Group day. Post your thoughts on your own blog. Talk about your doubts and the fears you have conquered. Discuss your struggles and triumphs. Offer a word of encouragement for others who are struggling. Visit others in the group and connect with your fellow writer - aim for a dozen new people each time. The awesome co-hosts for the February 5th posting of the IWSG will be are Joylene Nowell Butler, Louise Barbour, and Tyrean Martinson!

Let’s rock the neurotic writing world!

Twitter hashtag is #IWSG

  

To join the IWSG Blog Hop and view the List of Hop Participants!



Wednesday, January 08, 2025

IWSG: The Strong, Silent Type – My First Hero

Our January 8 Insecure Writers Support Group question hit home with me for many reasons, many of them not realized until later in life – that understanding that comes with age and experience:

Describe someone you admired when you were a child. Did your opinion of that person change when you grew up?

Heroes come in all shapes and sizes. When you’re young, you see just the surface things – like they’re one of those stars in your favorite TV show – larger than life, always in the know, always there, always right . . . and perfect. With the advance of years and knowledge, those opinions change, for better or worse as relationships and roles grow stronger or fade away.

My dad was my hero – the original handsome strong silent type. In a household of three daughters, each of we girls found our own way to relate to him – when he wasn’t working, fishing, hunting, motorcycle riding or building us a cabin up in Michigan’s north woods. My dad was a man’s man, an admirable figurehead to me as a child, whose response when approached was always, “Go ask Mommy” . . . until I was old enough to move out into my first apartment. After helping me drag things up three flights of stairs, I made him a Chinese meal from scratch in my new pans to thank him, something far-flung from the bland fare we got at home due to his ulcer. And, for the first time, we talked as adults. And we really, really enjoyed it.

Imagine my surprise that instead of not wanting to be bothered by we girls, he LOVED to tinker and tote and talk. Where had this quiet, funny, interesting man been all my life? He was uncomfortable because we’d all been educated far beyond what he’d been able to achieve having grown up one of five kids on a working farm, enlisting early in WWII shortly after getting married, and working two jobs to support us thereafter. He was afraid we were embarrassed by him. Jaw drop!

Due to complications from rheumatic fever as a child, improperly treated shrapnel wounds from the war, and smoking like a chimney since a teen, he never got to walk me down the aisle, to help me garden in my first backyard, or meet my sons. They would have loved him! At least I have albums of black and white photos, an American flag from his funeral, and memories to share with my grandson.

My dad was . . . and still is! . . . my hero.



Purpose: To share and encourage. Writers can express doubts and concerns without fear of appearing foolish or weak. Those who have been through the fire can offer assistance and guidance. It’s a safe haven for insecure writers of all kinds!

Posting: The first Wednesday of every month is officially Insecure Writer’s Support Group day. Post your thoughts on your own blog. Talk about your doubts and the fears you have conquered. Discuss your struggles and triumphs. Offer a word of encouragement for others who are struggling. Visit others in the group and connect with your fellow writer - aim for a dozen new people each time. The awesome co-hosts for the January 8th posting of the IWSG will be are Rebecca Douglass, Beth Camp, Liza @ Middle Passages, and Natalie @ Literary Rambles!

Let’s rock the neurotic writing world!

Twitter hashtag is #IWSG

  

To join the IWSG Blog Hop and view the List of Hop Participants!



Wednesday, December 04, 2024

IWSG: Don’t Leave Me Hanging!


Toss me a line, someone! Don’t leave me hanging after I’ve invested my time and money. Don’t leave me stranded at the end of your story. If you do, you can be sure I won’t bother to grab the following work . . . because you’ve lost my trust.

Our December question is about the gift you get but aren’t allowed to fully enjoy because the most important part is missing:

Do you write cliffhangers at the end of your stories? Are they a turnoff to you as a writer and/or a reader?

Would you take a wild ride in your car when there is no destination? Would you pay for a haircut that’s half finished? Think of those TV series in which you invest your time and your heart . . . only to have it cancelled without the final episode. Noooooo! We don’t like to be denied the payoff! Give us closure!

The exception is a series with an overarching mystery/plot – as long as the individual episodes have a satisfying ending. I’m impatient. I don’t like to be teased. If you dangle story threads then don’t tie them up in a pretty (or even an ugly) bow . . . eventually, I won’t read you again.

Sometimes, circumstances are out of your control, i.e. your line folds, your contract is cancelled, or (god forbid!) the joy of writing escapes you. Deliver what you promise with that glossy cover, that tantalizing blurb, that breath-suspending back cover copy that teases of more to come. Don’t leave your characters falling off a cliff along with our hopes and anticipation of answers/resolutions. Just don’t without forewarning. If there is no conclusion at the end of the book, let the reader know right up front that it will come in later installments, then allow the buyer to decide if they want to invest their money and time.

It may not be Happily Ever After forever in that first book, but for happy readers, give them the gratification of ‘for now,’ at least.



Purpose: To share and encourage. Writers can express doubts and concerns without fear of appearing foolish or weak. Those who have been through the fire can offer assistance and guidance. It’s a safe haven for insecure writers of all kinds!

Posting: The first Wednesday of every month is officially Insecure Writer’s Support Group day. Post your thoughts on your own blog. Talk about your doubts and the fears you have conquered. Discuss your struggles and triumphs. Offer a word of encouragement for others who are struggling. Visit others in the group and connect with your fellow writer - aim for a dozen new people each time. The awesome co-hosts for the December 4th posting of the IWSG will be are Ronel, Deniz, Pat Garcia, Olga Godim, and Cathrina Constantine!

Let’s rock the neurotic writing world!

Twitter hashtag is #IWSG

  

To join the IWSG Blog Hop and view the List of Hop Participants!



Wednesday, November 06, 2024

IWSG: A Crafty Devil – Non-Writing Creative Endeavors

What?! There’s more to life than just writing!?? I guess I’m walking, talking, crafting proof. And it started BEFORE I was able to construe a sentence on paper. Before I wrote, I spun verbal stories at bedtime to delay the inevitable after lights out. My middle sister and I shared a room. At night, after our mom finished our nightly tale from one of our library books, we would lie awake, imaginations churning. And because I had a healthy fear of the dark in our creaky old house, I’d make up stories about heroic sisters who fought off monsters. But my creativity spread far beyond just whispered stories. And I have my mom to thank.

My mother was an occupational therapist at our local State Hospital (the grim place mentally impaired patients were kept before we knew what to do with them). She taught arts and crafts part time while my sisters and I were in school, so naturally, we were expected to excel in them. Imagine her frustration with an ambidextrous daughter who knit with both hands equally. I learned to sew by hand and on an ancient machine and to do needlepoint. I could cook up a storm for family and friends. When I declared I was going to become an author, she said, “That’s nice, but what are you going to do for a living.” One did not make a living from words and make-believe stories, so Mom insisted I find a profession that would incorporate what I loved. I’d become a teacher. But that took years, and I only had so much money available for college. I could be a journalist, but I was too shy to initiate interviews. Then one of my professors echoed what my high school English teachers told me - that I was the best creative writer they’d ever had. I should be writing books – in a time when there was no mass market for fiction, no career ops for someone spinning stories.

But I never gave up. Notebooks of hand-written pages stacked high while I went to insurance school but hated sales. I got a job with an attorney that spun into a profession. With my photographic memory (my superpower!) I could find any file in our office and detail the case practically verbatim. I loved finding out our clients’ backstories by doing dictation on their cases.

And during my lunch hour, I wrote. Every. Day.

And I still do, 80 published books and many partials later. When my attorney retired from the office so did I. I became what I’d dreamed of becoming – a fulltime writer – who still LOVES to cook, sew, knit, do word and picture puzzles while putting together the pieces of my next novel.

Life is a creative adventure and I’m enjoying it!!



Purpose: To share and encourage. Writers can express doubts and concerns without fear of appearing foolish or weak. Those who have been through the fire can offer assistance and guidance. It’s a safe haven for insecure writers of all kinds!

Posting: The first Wednesday of every month is officially Insecure Writer’s Support Group day. Post your thoughts on your own blog. Talk about your doubts and the fears you have conquered. Discuss your struggles and triumphs. Offer a word of encouragement for others who are struggling. Visit others in the group and connect with your fellow writer - aim for a dozen new people each time. The awesome co-hosts for the November 6th posting of the IWSG will be are Diedre Knight, Lisa Buie Collard , Kim Lajevardi, and JQ Rose!

Let’s rock the neurotic writing world!

Twitter hashtag is #IWSG

  

To join the IWSG Blog Hop and view the List of Hop Participants!



Wednesday, October 02, 2024

IWSG – Superstition


My favorite time of year – crisp air, blazing tree leaves, cool nights for sleeping . . . and superstitions creeping. I LOVE me some Halloween. The scary stories, the decorations (of which we have BOXES!), the spooky and the silly movies (of which I have an entire shelf!).

Two day ago, I got totally distracted from everything else by a small black cat who showed up on our back patio. A beautiful kitty with huge yellow eyes. Though I already have three cats, all of them orphaned or abandoned, I started planning to take in one more. But the kitty had other ideas. Though she loved the food and fresh water, the waterproof shelter on our porch and watching us with interest, I have yet to get close enough to pet her. But I won’t give up. Because there’s nothing worse in my book than a lost, lonely cat who is hungry and afraid (unless, of course, it’s a child).

So in my efforts to ingratiate myself to this little creature, all else fell away. Until I turned on my computer this morning. How could it be the first Wednesday of the month already? Mia culpa!!

Looking forward to reading your posts – even if it’s outside in the cold trying to tame a wondering kitty.

Happy Halloween in advance. Let the decorating begin!!



Purpose: To share and encourage. Writers can express doubts and concerns without fear of appearing foolish or weak. Those who have been through the fire can offer assistance and guidance. It’s a safe haven for insecure writers of all kinds!

Posting: The first Wednesday of every month is officially Insecure Writer’s Support Group day. Post your thoughts on your own blog. Talk about your doubts and the fears you have conquered. Discuss your struggles and triumphs. Offer a word of encouragement for others who are struggling. Visit others in the group and connect with your fellow writer - aim for a dozen new people each time. The awesome co-hosts for the October 1st posting of the IWSG will be are are Nancy Gideon, Jennifer Lane, Jacqui Murray, and Natalie Aguirre!

Let’s rock the neurotic writing world!

Twitter hashtag is #IWSG

  

To join the IWSG Blog Hop and view the List of Hop Participants!



Wednesday, September 04, 2024

IWSG – Rules Made to Be Broken – by Me!


September 4th question – Since it’s back to school time, let’s talk English class. What’s a writing rule you learned in school that messed you up as a writer?

That’s an easy one! Complete sentences. (I love starting out with an example!) I discovered in elementary school that I was a writer. I LOVED playing with words. And as much as teachers encouraged my prose, they frowned on breaking the rules. Especially, that complete sentences one. (See what I did there?). By fifth grade, and up through my English with Writing Emphasis honors degree, my papers were used as examples of vivid writing – and dodging the rules. I blame Batman. Pow! Bam! Biff! Nothing like a short, punchy exclamation to elevate the heart rate. Even in college, as an English major, my work was used (anonymously!) as examples of quality prose, but also for its rule breaking. Newspapers, both local and university, always wanted me to do feature interviewing for them, but I was too shy to make the person-to-person connection. Page-to-Person, now that was altogether different.

When I first published, the incomplete sentence continued to haunt me. I love me a one-word sentence. Boom. Attention grabbed. Copy editors jumped on them, but by the time I built a track record (and garnered a few awards), they let them slip through. Warning: Short, punchy sentences need those flowing, expository sisters to hang out with them for balance and emphasis. And flavor.

What rules have you bent or broken?



Purpose: To share and encourage. Writers can express doubts and concerns without fear of appearing foolish or weak. Those who have been through the fire can offer assistance and guidance. It’s a safe haven for insecure writers of all kinds!

Posting: The first Wednesday of every month is officially Insecure Writer’s Support Group day. Post your thoughts on your own blog. Talk about your doubts and the fears you have conquered. Discuss your struggles and triumphs. Offer a word of encouragement for others who are struggling. Visit others in the group and connect with your fellow writer - aim for a dozen new people each time. The awesome co-hosts for the September 4th posting of the IWSG will be are are Beth Camp, Jean Davis, Yvonne Ventresca, and PJ Colando!

Let’s rock the neurotic writing world!

Twitter hashtag is #IWSG

  

To join the IWSG Blog Hop and view the List of Hop Participants!